I recently recruited my husband to help me take Charlie on an adventure - meaning out of the field where he has been for the past four months. There are the two pony mares, their babies, and then one baby who has joined them in the past few weeks. I figured there was absolutely no way I could get Charlie through the gate on my own without letting the mares out as well. The mares are well aware that outside of the gate is heaven, aka a LOT of grass. So DH was armed with treats to distract them while I got Charlie through the gate. Turns out yielding to pressure in the field is distinctly different from yielding to pressure out in the big open world and when asked to step through a gate (where he was SO SURE he wasn't going to fit LOL). Fortunately DH was able to provide a little pressure on his rear end to aid.
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| Takes his cue from the mares and picks on new "friend" |
Once through the gate Charlie looked pretty shell shocked. But he just stood still while taking it in, contemplating what exactly had just occurred. I shoved a few blades of grass into his mouth a couple of times until he realized that he had just crossed over into the land of plenty. He happily ate for a bit, but did stay QUITE close to me. The personal space bubble we've been working on got massively smaller, but given that this was a new and stressful situation, I let him get away with it.
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| Absolutely the most derpy, picture from safely within the field. No hands were on phones the first go round. |
We then practiced a teeny tiny circle away from the field before walking parallel to the fence line, working on still listening and being a good pony while everyone else was on the other side of the fence. He was pretty good about that, so we called it a success and went to put him back in. Again though he was uncertain about going through the gate until his dam nickered at him. Once she did that, he went on through and let me lead him a few steps forward so I could close the gate after us. As soon as I took the halter off, he went straight to mom to have a good nurse. Poor baby boy!
Since then I've actually managed two more trips out on our own. The next time I visited him, I started with moving the poles that have been in his field the whole time. This prompted a bit of a pause and look and consider.
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| I'm trying SO hard not to pull on him and instead to have him step forward from behind, but I might've screwed up a bit this go round |
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| But then I gave him a minute and he thought |
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| And thought |
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| And did it like such a GOOD BOY. It's like he remembers the ask. I stayed in the same spot once he stopped to consider and didn't step forward again or pull again and he thought and thought and then stepped up. It's super interesting to see. |
After a few circles over the poles, we headed out the gate. I had to put my hand on his bum to encourage him through, but it was definitely less pressure than trip one.
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| Quick study to learn about the goodness that lies on the other side of the fence |
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| Mom was a bit concerned still, Charlie was not concerned at all this time |
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| NOMS |
We went farther away this time with a few circles and walking along the fence line parallel, about ten feet away. I always want to quit while I'm ahead though, and I think succeeded since he seemed to not be at all stressed by the distance this time.
A few days later, we took another trip out of the field. He was quicker still with the gate.
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| And immediately went to eating |
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| I'd let him eat for a few bites then we'd walk a bit. We found something concerning though. |
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| Big 'ole color change of the ground at the limerock road |
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| This must be a pony piglet thing. He was concerned about the road still, but very content to eat right by it. Butterball does the same thing. My TBs distinctly did not. |
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| So I gave him time and didn't actually even ask again, like the pole, but he volunteered to march over it after a minute. N of 1 working with foals, but I'm super impressed with his temperament so far. |
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| Hose triggered no cares |
We looped a bit in the other direction where there's some plywood and a few other things on the ground. When he started staring at it, I tried Warwick Schiller's method of also looking to acknowledge that there was indeed something and I wasn't oblivious to his concern but continuing to take slow deep breaths to communicate to him that I wasn't anxious about the thing. He felt very baby and was dipping from side to side of me to peek at it and hiding behind my back. He wasn't standing on me or in my space, so I just let him do that while I kept breathing. Once he relaxed a little bit and seemed still, we turned away from it and he grazed a bit more before I put him back in.
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| Back with BFF |
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| But still wanted to hang out and cuddle, he's so sweet |
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| Herro! |
My equine vet BFF was telling me that many folks think that the stress of weaning may lead to developing anxiety behaviors. Essentially by separating mare and foal cold turkey we're teaching forced helplessness. Keep the baby and mare safe but apart until they give up on getting back together. I'm hoping with these little adventures I'll make that process just a tiny bit easier on both Charlie and mom.